ARE WE MADE TO BE DEPENDENT?
I KNOW A CHRISTAIN WOULD SAY YES, WE ARE MEANT TO BE DEPENDENT ON GOD. OTHERS WILL HAVE THEIR OWN OPTION. I JUST WONDER?

BUT A PSYCHOLOGIST IS LIKELY GOING TO SAY IT IS WHAT WE TELL OURSELVES OVER TIME. THAT IS LIKE WE SAY TO OURSELVES, 'I CANNOT LIVE WITHOUT HIM/HER' OR I CANNOT LIVE WITHOUT TAKING A S DRINK A DAY, OR SLEEPING WITH A WOMAN. I QUITE AGREE WITH THIS BECAUSE IF WE TELL OURSELVES THAT WHEN THINGS AROUND US CHANGE WE CAN ADJUST, OUR DEPENDENCE ON THOSE THINGS WILL REDUCE. TAKE EXAMPLE OF MAXWELL AND HIS FRIEND DEJI. TYHEY BOTH COULD HARDLY STAY A DAY WITHOUT TALKING TO EACH OTHER A LEAST ON PHONE, BUT WHEN THEY EVENTUALLY DECIDED TO STAY AWAY, THEY ADJUSTED.